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November 6, 2011

gratitude blog 11.06.2011

Filed under: Life — Tags: , — michele james-parham @ 12:55 pm

It’s been a long while since I blogged about anything. Gratitude is rich & warm right now, so here it is:

Gratitude Blog 11.06.2011

I’m grateful for…

1) the insane amount of patiences of my Dear Other Half.

2) the opportunity to use both my innate mothering skills and learned wellness skills as a street medic for OccupyPgh.

3) people willing to take a stance, to use their voices.

4) Autumnal days bathed in sunshine.

5) the beautiful, strong & intelligent women I know.

6) local coffeeshops.

7) making the decision to fully support my child’s autonomy and all the messiness that sometimes is a direct result of that decision.

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Remember, if you have a gratitude blog or online journal and want to share, leave a link in the comments. And if you don’t have one, but want to share something(s) you are grateful for, leave a comment.

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August 8, 2011

senses – part 2

Filed under: Life,Religiosophy — Tags: — michele james-parham @ 6:47 pm

Senses – part 2 (part 1)

Smell: Warm Rain. Cool Nights. Autumn Creeping.

Touch: Keyboard on a screen. Cat Fur.

Taste: Chelidonium. Water.

See: The setting sun. Playful Shadows. Rumble of Playstation.

Hear: Fan. Cicadas. Birds.

Say: …nothing. Breathe.

Eat: Sunflower seed butter & jelly sammich.

Notice: Muscles Rebuilding.

Emote: Love, Peace & Longing.

Love: The Breeze. Dear Other Half. Things working out.

Dislike: The smell of cat litter. Car Expenses. Slow Healing.

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May 16, 2011

our stories – part 5 – where did i go?

Filed under: Life — Tags: , , , , , — michele james-parham @ 12:56 am

In case you have not noticed, I have not uploaded a post in over a month. No, I did not forget about blogging or lose interest in blogging. I broke my leg.

Come again? I said, I boke my leg.

To make an interesting story short, I was walking down the sidewalk and tripped. I ate the cold concrete with the left side of my face and my left knee – did not even get my hands out to break my fall. After dialing 911, the lovely paramedics took me to the ER at Alleghney General Hospital on Saturday, April 16th. While my father was 1200 miles away celebrating his forty-some-odd birthday, I was in the ER waiting to be admitted.

I had x-rays, a CT scan and an MRI. Those all confirmed that I did indeed shatter the top of my left tibia, which then led me to have an open reduction and internal fixation surgery on Monday, April 18th. I was discharged and sent home on Wednesday, April 20th. In my farewell goodie bag was a prescription for Percocet and 28 pre filled syringes of Lovenox (for me to inject into my soft fatty tummy every morning). Oh, and instructions not to put any weight on my brace bound leg for four weeks.

When I went for my two week post-op follow up doctor visit on Thursday, May 5th, I was x-rayed again (told those looked great), had my stitches removed and was outfitted with a fancy new leg brace that allows me to bend my knee some. I was told that I might actually see 20 years out of my knee before I needed a total knee replacement, instead of the ten years that I was threatened with after surgery. I was also given a prescription for physical therapy for six weeks (2 to 3 times a week).

Last week, on Wednesday the 11th, I went to my first PT appointment. I go to my next appointment this Thursday. I have no idea when I will get to try walking… but, it seems as though that is still a ways out.

What do I do all day? PT exercises, play on my new iPad (that my in-laws bought me), play games on my Nintendo DS, hang out with the kiddo and be taken care of by my Dear Other Half. I have lived in the front room of our house on a spare bed for a month now and will remain there awhile longer.

I am going to try to pick up where I left off with my weekly blogging schedule, but it may get drastically cut down. Here is a reminder of what I had been doing:

Monday
Wednesday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
And the rest of “our stories” can be found here.

I am not completely sure how much of that I will keep up with, but I will make an effort to blog at least a couple times a week. Typing on an iPad is quite infuriating and blogging with links and doing the whole cut and paste routine is proving to be quite cumbersome. We shall see what comes of this. However, once I am mobile again and can use my regular computer, I plan on being back in the blogging game, full swing.

That is all for tonight.

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April 15, 2011

friday fill-in 04.15.11

Filed under: Entertainment,Life — Tags: , — michele james-parham @ 4:35 pm

Friday Fill-In 04.15.2011

1. For me, it was a tough decision.

2. Wishing their was more of a selection of organic foods at my local supermarket.

3. Behind the sound of the wind in the trees, I heard the answers to Life, the Universe and Everything.

4. Learn to play the accordion is something I always wanted to do.

5. When it was over, I was able to take a step back and really let myself feel – reflection at it’s best.

6. This Winter was particularly difficult for me, but I never felt alone.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to grabbing drinks with a good friend, tomorrow my plans include getting my hair prettied up by a pretty lady and calling my dad to wish him a happy birthday and Sunday, I want to sleep like the dead… but I have lovely children to kidsit instead!

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April 11, 2011

100 things – part 8

Filed under: Entertainment,Life — Tags: , — michele james-parham @ 10:00 pm

previous posts of 100 things can be found here

71. Pool or ocean? Ocean, but a pool is a nice stand-in.

72. Favorite comic strip? Nemi

73. Have you ever won a trophy? Yes. LOTS of them for baton twirling. There were some from random things in school too (think spelling bees).

74. What time is it now? 10:37 pm

75. Do you believe in The One? Depends on which ‘The One’ you’re talking about.

76. Strawberries or Blueberries? Both, but Strawberries come out on top.

77. Least favorite color? Yellow (I think).

78. Do you have a favorite kind of pen? Yes. I purposely bend the tip to (just slightly) get the right angle (refer back to question #40).

79. What is your favorite number? I have three main ones: 6, 7 & 13 (6+7=13; imagine that).

80. If you could pay anyone in the world to be your friend, who would it be? I don’t have to pay anyone. For some reason, people love me anyway. I don’t think you can actually pay someone to be your friend. However, in the spirit of the question, I would pay Janeane Garofalo to be my friend for a day (because grrrr).

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April 9, 2011

gratitude blog 04.09.11

Filed under: Life — Tags: , — michele james-parham @ 3:17 pm

Gratitude Blog 04.09.2011

I’m grateful for…

1) company & help during cleaning projects.

2) sunshine on my face.

3) balloons strewn about on the dance floor at an event that would have otherwise been boring as hell for a certain boy.

4) snuggles from my man.

5) bento boxes.

6) tumblr.com (I have found a lot of cool stuff via tumblr recently).

7) sleeping kitties (they keep me warm).

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