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Comments for Natural Attachment http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress Queer. Domestic Goddess. Traditional Midwife. Radical Unschooling Mum. Wife. Anarchist. Crusty Punk Extraordinaire. Nerdfighter. Armchair Librarian. Shanti Sena. D.I.Y. Mathematician. Tea Enthusiast. Aspiring Accordionist. Wed, 01 May 2013 07:49:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3530 michele james-parham Wed, 01 May 2013 07:49:20 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3530 Thanks for commenting, De! I had the Princess & the Pea Syndrome when I was younger as well as the whirling thoughts for a good 3 to 4 hours at night (combined with the fact that I had a ‘bedtime’ much too early for night owl self).

My son is a super taster; he can distinguish between different brands of canned chick peas/garbanzo beans and other things. It can make dealings with food tricky from time to time.

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by De Smith http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3529 De Smith Wed, 01 May 2013 07:02:17 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3529 :: raises hand :: Terminally weird, here, too!

I don’t have many of the same occurrences you describe, though I’m definitely like that with the messy desk & being able to find things in it & direct people to it (though the rest of my family doesn’t really understand my directions! :~D ). If someone messes with my mess, I’m lost!

I have a strong sense of taste (super taster) and smells/scents are associated with certain things with me. Sometimes, I’ll get a scent for apparently no reason. I’m forever asking my family, “Do you smell that?!! No, it smells like _! Really! It’s coming from _!”

Voices, too. I love listening to commercials, animated things & voice overs to pick out the actor who’s voicing it. I wish there was a “Name That Voice” version of Name That Tune… “I can name that voice in 7 words!” ;~)

The two weirdest things I realized that were different than most other people as I grew older were dreams & brain activity. I dream basically like a movie: full details, full color, plot, everything. Intense. I was amazed to hear so many other people dreamed in fractioned pieces, black-and-white, surreal ways. My dreams are *long*, as well. Either that, or I can chain-dream. One of my most interesting dreams happened when I was in a period that I was writing them down, to analyze and remember and I got through 10 pages of college-ruled notebook (front and back) before I realized I was only 1/4 through the dream and I was already starting to forget parts, so I quit. I still remember chunks of it, but not all the fine details.

My brain whirls in constant speed with 20 – 50 different ideas all at the same time. They whirl somewhat like your spirals, but more open-ended and not decending… more weaving in and out of the forefront, floating higher & lower – all at the same time. This used to be the main cause of my inability to sleep. I had so many ideas & thoughts & inspirations spinning around like unattached clockworks in my head, each new thought or idea stimulating my heartbeat & endorphins (or whatever was waking me up – my natural caffeine ;~) ) and creating a never-ending cycle. Well, okay, eventually it would end, when my ideas got less interesting and I could manage not to think of new, exciting things. But it would easily take me 3 – 4 hours to get to sleep. Sometimes more. Hellacious annoying to lie there, being exhausted, wanting so much to fall asleep… and not being able to. Especially when you have a spouse who falls asleep in 5 seconds flat anywhere. Literally, one time, standing up in a busy airport, leaning against a wall. I also have what I call “Princess & the Pea Syndrome”, where things have to be “just so” in order for me to fall asleep & stay asleep. Pitch dark, white noise, unwrinkled sheets, etc. I eventually solved the “whirling brain, can’t sleep” part when I was in my late 30′s, thankfully.

I’d forgotten all this stuff about myself until I read your post – thanks for linking it to the Geek/Nerd post! Very interesting stuff!

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by Geeky Nerds & Sundry | Natural Attachment http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3528 Geeky Nerds & Sundry | Natural Attachment Tue, 30 Apr 2013 05:48:41 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3528 [...] a synesthete and I am really into hearing about other synesthetes’ experiences. I wrote a blog post about my crazy [...]

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Comment on The Ultimate Parenting Meme by Ashleigh Swerdfeger http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2008/10/10/the-ultimate-parenting-meme/comment-page-1/#comment-3524 Ashleigh Swerdfeger Tue, 23 Apr 2013 19:01:39 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2008/10/10/the-ultimate-parenting-meme/#comment-3524 I have to say I love this! It has articulated the way I feel I should raise my child. It is such a different way of thinking that I think it is hard for people to wrap their minds around it. Change is hard and the mind fights it. However, it is great to have this to educate people.

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by Joann http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3523 Joann Fri, 12 Apr 2013 19:27:38 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3523 Thank you. I appreciate it very much.

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3522 michele james-parham Fri, 12 Apr 2013 05:38:35 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3522 I’m going to send you an email, Joann. Those all very good questions and I hope to answer some in the email I send you. In the meantime, I suggest you go to and scour http://askpauline.com Pauline’s site is a wealth of information.

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by Joann http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3521 Joann Fri, 12 Apr 2013 02:02:36 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3521 I pulled my son out of the horrible public school system here in PA after 5th grade. I began cyber schooling him, which consists of test after test. He is currently in 9th grade and has straight A’s but is not interested at all in the things the “normal schools” teach. As for me, I can’t remember anything at all about algebra… so to me, I don’t see what the purpose of learning it was since I haven’t used it once. I spoke to my son about unschooling and we had some questions such as; What are these portfolios about since all the children are learning about different things? What tests are given? Are they like the PSSAs or Keystone exams? My son will be starting 10th grade so what tests will he have to take at the end of each year? Also, In order to get a high school diploma, would he have to take the same test as the children that go to regular schools? I would really appreciate if you could let me know if there is somewhere I could get the answers to these questions. Thank you.

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3515 michele james-parham Fri, 29 Mar 2013 16:56:42 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3515 Thanks for your comment, Issa. I really enjoy hearing about other people’s synesthetic experiences. I can imagine the two of us attending a live orchestral event together; you’d be seeing awesome colours and I’d be tasting awesome things! Amazing!

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3514 michele james-parham Fri, 29 Mar 2013 16:53:59 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3514 Thanks for sharing your experiences with me. I love hearing about other ‘weird’ people like us :-)

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by Issa http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3512 Issa Fri, 29 Mar 2013 15:49:50 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3512 Hi! A friend of mine who’s a synesthete, told me that I am one too. Not a strong one, i must say. But ever since I was a kid, I’ve always seen the world differently, heard the world differently. Like I always listened and observed in the background. But what made my friend say that I’m a synesthete is because of how I respond to music. I see colors in my mind when I listen to classical music..and when it’s orchestral, my mind’s vision is blown away with colors. Especially when the instruments are live. :) i think we somehow have the same way we remember events in our lives.. Haha :)

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3504 michele james-parham Mon, 25 Mar 2013 02:20:59 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3504 You’re most welcome! Sometimes, when we are searching for an entire forest, we forget that a single tree in a field is just as important. :-) good luck!

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by Lisa http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3503 Lisa Mon, 25 Mar 2013 01:59:23 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3503 Thank you so much for these suggestions! I wouldn’t have thought of them. Again, we are so “programmed” to think formal essays, etc. I really appreciate it! :-)

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by michele james-parham http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3502 michele james-parham Mon, 25 Mar 2013 01:54:10 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3502 Do your children write emails, letters, or comments on YouTube, Facebook, and articles online? Do they blog or keep journals? Is there writing involved with their power point presentations or the planning phase of the presentations? Do they write lists, menus, meal planning guides, memos, recipes, notes when they leave the house, annotations on Kindle books, or book reviews on Good Reads? Those are all forms of writing :-)

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Comment on Unschooling: Evaluations & Portfolios by Lisa http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2009/07/11/evaluations-portfolios/comment-page-1/#comment-3501 Lisa Sun, 24 Mar 2013 20:34:24 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=327#comment-3501 Although I am not new to homeschooling, I am new to unschooling. I was a public school teacher and it has taken me much time to “de-program” myself of that kind of thinking. My children were only in school for several years, and I still feel like I am trying to help undo the damage done to them.

That being said, I had a question about the portfolio. How would you suggest documenting English and/or writing for older students? My children love to do power point presentations, we discuss things, they make posters, etc., but not a whole lot of writing. Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks.

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Comment on My Perception is Different (an ode to synesthesia) by praline88 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/2012/03/25/my-perception-is-different-an-ode-to-synesthesia/comment-page-1/#comment-3472 praline88 Thu, 07 Feb 2013 20:34:02 +0000 http://www.naturalattachment.com/wordpress/?p=989#comment-3472 Hello Michelle
Thanks for your article, i’m 24 years old and I’ve recently found out I have spatial sequence synesthesia. I didn’t even know it had a name and an explanation until I realized a few months ago that none my friends nor relatives were thinking this way, and decided to look into it on the internet.
I have a “map” when evoking the days of the week, months, years… even the ages, shoe/clothes sizes, temperatures… any number and whatever time, dates I think of, have a specific location in my mind.
I even find it quite tiring , as I have the feeling that my brain is continuously “restless”; every single moment mentally matches to the place I have allocated to it.
It has surely good points, I very easily remember when special events took place, which year one good song or movie was released, which month were some people born… thanks to my circles/diamond shapes/ lines …
It is really difficult to articulate and describe that phenomenon, people usually find it weird, that’s why i’m happy to read stories such as yours!
By the way, i’m also a midwife :)

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