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September 24, 2009

Catching Up: Elijah’s Birthday Week

Elijah turned 6 years old on September 18th. Yeah, 6…it’s craaaaazzzy. His “birthday week” stretched from Sunday, September 6th until Sunday, September 13th. Here are some highlights…

Mr. Freaky Pants the 1st

Mr. Freaky Pants the 1st

stained glass

stained glass

homemade Lego kits

homemade Lego kits

Es first set of wheels (not counting my old trike); courtesy of my parents.

E's first set of wheels (not counting my old trike); courtesy of my parents.

pirates! (dead ones at that)

pirates! (dead ones at that)

extra snuggles with his favorite person

extra snuggles with his favorite person

wine cork blow dart guns

wine cork blow dart guns

people & somewhere theres pet rocks

people & somewhere there's pet rocks

new Legos

new Legos

musical entertainment

musical entertainment

cake, candles & wishes...there might have been some ice cream too!

cake, candles & wishes...there might have been some ice cream too!

I mentioned cake, right?

I mentioned cake, right?

The following picture pretty much summed up the entire experience for Elijah.

WTF guys?

WTF guys?

It was a LONG week. We cleaned. We ate. We shopped. We made stuff. We cried. We screamed. We made new friends. We learned a lot. We saw people. We broke things. We fought over toys. We bitched about random occurrences. We loved. We laughed. We got tons of phone calls. We opened gifts from many miles away. We sang (but not “Happy Birthday”). We will do it all over again next year…all while simultaneously hating & loving it!

Many “happy” returns, Elijah.

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July 25, 2009

Keira’s 3rd Birthday Party

In spite of yesterday being Learn Nothing Day, we decided to go celebrate one awesome little girl’s 3rd birthday. Unfortunately, not only did we have fun, but we learned stuff…not to mention all the stuff we leanred pre/post party. Oh, well…maybe next year we can try harder ;)

Keira wanted a pink & yellow bicycle cake; her mum Erin worked her ass off and made it happen!

Keira wanted a pink & yellow bicycle cake; her mum Erin worked her ass off and made it happen!

Keira (elephant)

Keira (elephant)

Finnegan (dragon), River (young aleister crowley) & Banyan (as her usual sweet self)

Finnegan (dragon), River (young aleister crowley) & Banyan (as her usual sweet self)

Sarah (soft-serve ice cream)

Sarah (soft-serve ice cream)

Keira makes her wish.

Keira makes her wish.

Elijah (who was a ghost, but not pictured as such) decides to appropriate some of Williams (who was a ghost hunter) ghost hunting gear.

Elijah (who was a ghost, but not pictured as such) decides to appropriate some of William's (who was a ghost hunter) ghost hunting gear.

And then there was music…


I ended up going as myself, but slightly more Gypsy than usual.

I ended up going as myself, but slightly more Gypsy than usual.

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February 1, 2009

Happy Birthday to Me

Filed under: Life — Tags: , , — michele james-parham @ 12:35 pm

It’s my birthday. Happy Birthday to me. I’m still a baby; only turning 27. February 1st is my special day.

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September 21, 2008

Five

Filed under: Family & Friends,Life,Unschlog — Tags: , , — michele james-parham @ 6:35 pm


Energetic
Persistent
Enlightened
Free Spirited
Dramatic
Self Aware
Curious
Explosive
Assertive
Inventive
Intense
Authentic
Bright
Opinionated
Perceptive
Fervent
Independent
Sensitive
Awakened
Fiery
Self Expressive
Imaginative
Self Assured
Autonomous
Creative
Loving
Radical
Spontaneous
Cuddly
Spirited
Exhaustive & Exhausting

Elijah Uriel, my Indigo Child,  turned five on Thursday, September 18th, 2008 at 2:44pm

E, you rock and may the trail blaze bright in your wake for others to follow!

Your party was, well, it was a party for you and it was your party :) I think the message is clear — you would rather not have a ‘party’, because YOU don’t find it necessary. Point taken and heard loud & clear. I love you Elijah.

Oh, and lots of thanks, kisses & hugs to Courtney, who understands and seems to always be willing to stick around until the end. I love and appreciate you tons :)

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February 1, 2008

Birthday

Filed under: Life — Tags: , — michele james-parham @ 5:42 pm

Usually people raise hell when they don’t ‘do anything’ for their birthdays…I am here to tell you that the secret to having a great birthday is to just do that — do nothing. I haven’t done much more than eat twice so far and jack around on the internet and I am happy as pie…although, now that I think about it, pie probably isn’t very happy. I digress, it is cold, wet and gray, but I see dinner and the purchase of books an hour or two away and this makes me smile. So, for your next birthday, try to do as little as humanly possible and see that you don’t feel absolutely relieved. After all, it is YOUR day of birth remembrance; you are not required to entertain others.

Cheers to 26 years and to future years!

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January 31, 2008

Another Year has come and gone…

Filed under: Family & Friends,Life,Unschlog — Tags: , , , , , , — michele james-parham @ 4:04 pm

So…here it is: my second post on this new blog! I have so much to tell you.

Blog Land: I haven’t really worked on the functionality nor the look/feel of this new blog yet, but I have worked on some content…it counts in my book as progress. I will not allow you to criticize me, because I am busy with more important things, such as being a mother and domestic goddess.

Family Land: We had William’s brother (Bobby, Elijah’s godfather) and his fiance (Melinda) and four year old daughter (Kendall) come up here to Pittsburgh to stay with us for a week — all the way from Tulsa, OK. We all had fun. It is my sincerest hope that they will move up here (hopefully to co-house). The children got along…as well as any two four year olds can who are only children and both dominate personalities — with that Disney (Kendall) vs. Anti-Disney (Elijah) driving cultural force behind it as well and you can only imagine. No one drew blood, thankfully.

Personal Land: I will be 26 years old tomorrow! Can you believe that? I can. Please, don’t send me anything outside of a ‘hello’. I do not feel any older, but those around me who are older than I, do feel as though they are ‘ancient’…I don’t see it.

House Land: We have now cleaned and unpacked 90% of our house!!! Leaving my office, William’s studio and the balcony and porch to be cleaned and unpacked. Ok, so maybe that’s more than 10% left, but of the Public spaces in our house, 90% is done. I finally have some free time for more creative endeavors without feeling guilty about doing craftiness.

Unschooling Land: Well, the kiddo is still living, playing, loving and subsequently, still learning. We have recently been to the Carnegie Science Centre to play around and to see the Bodies exhibit; we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. We also hopped over to the Pittsburgh’s Children Museum (PCM) and made a day of it; we also made paper there. We are patiently awaiting the new exhibit at the PCM — Secret Circles. We have been busy building with Kapla blocks, blocks, wooden marble run, Lincoln Logs and anything else that one can stack. There has also been an explosion (both quantity and quality) in writing, drawing and coloring. Elijah has been very detailed and creative with his drawings since the Holidays; also enjoys naming his creations. I am constantly amazed on a daily basis by how much he knows and remembers. He has a fascinating grasp on numbers, patterns and math in general, without any ‘real’ prompting. As usual, he still LOVES being read to and looking through books and catalogs by himself. So, we will just keep on dreaming and painting the town red with him…he’s the one in control and is showing us that he’s learning immense amounts of useful skills and knowledge all while having a glorious childhood.

That’s a wrap for this post. I have more, but I am tired of blabbing. I’ll be back.

In Love and Peace,
M.

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