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February 15, 2011

weather, quotations & writing

Filed under: Entertainment,Life — Tags: , , , , , , , — michele james-parham @ 7:10 pm

I’m loving the weather right now; it’s so manic. We’re expecting 60 degrees here in Pittsburgh on Thursday and the last few days have been around 50 degrees! In February, in Pittsburgh, insane.

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While researching a quotation yesterday, I stumbled unto this awesome website/blog called Street Anatomy. I was kind of struck by this post.

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I said this today:

“Life ain’t easy and sometimes, it just feels like swimming upstream in a river of molasses – rich, sticky and sweet, but it’s still thick and hard to tread through.”

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I finished rereading Opening Up on Sunday. I still think there are some bits in the book that are fairly invalidating for both those seeking to open up their relationship and those whose partner is seeking to open up their relationship. Overall, though, it’s a good book for a person to read who is curious or contemplating opening up their monogamous relationship. It’s nice that it covers all kinds of different relationship structures AND explains that it’s not just about getting more sex and in fact, you can open up a relationship purely for emotional intimacy with many partners and not have sex with any of them – this might clear up the misconception that a lot of people have about sex being the reason for nonmonogamy.

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I’ve started writing again. In little bits and fusses, but writing just the same. Some of it is poetry and some of it is just stream of consciousness scrawling. I’ll share things as I finish them. Writing lately has been extremely therapeutic in general – even this blog (which I have kept going forĀ  25 days straight – that’s almost a month of blogging and that’s a first for me!).

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Hopefully, Networked Blogs won’t forget about this post like it forgot about yesterday’s post.

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A Facebook friend posted this blog link tonight – beautiful concept and artwork.

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January 12, 2009

Some Crazy Snow

Filed under: Environment,Photographs,Pittsburghian — Tags: , , — michele james-parham @ 4:39 pm

Here’s a little taste of our crazy snow yesterday. I took these pictures from the balcony off the kitchen, which overlooks our backyard. Unfortunately, it was just too cold for us to really enjoy it.


Those are only my feet, Elijah didn’t want to come out and leave his mark too. Here is our snow in action.

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February 6, 2008

It’s the End of the World…and I Feel Fine

Is anyone else sick of the weather? I am. When it’s Winter, I expect Winter weather: cold, wind, snow, sleet, ice, etc.). Well, I will be getting back to that kind of weather over the next week, but the last two days here in the ‘burgh have been well, Spring like. Some of the trees have buds, I’ve heard baby birds (and seen them) and we were able to have the windows open for almost two entire days. Mind you this is occurring now, in February. We also had a four day stretch of this at the end of January, when I observed the same phenomenons.

Yes, I know you are going to mention ‘Climate Change’ and ‘Global Warming’. But, as the Republicans have informed us, those things don’t really exist. I mean, I believe they do. Do I think we have caused them, no, but I do think we have added to their severity and probably rushed things along. The only thing that I know for sure is that Mother Nature is tired of us. Though ‘we’ think that we have found ways to conquer her, she is still as feral as the inner thoughts of house cats. I’ve seen footage and photographs from Prypiat and Chernobyl. I know that less than 20 years after we are gone, Mother Nature will prevail and envelope and hide most if not all signs of us.

I want seasons, seasons that are consistent. Living in Pittsburgh, has allowed to me to experience four definite seasons, but even they are on rocky ground. I am not looking forward to only experiencing very extreme Summers and Winters with no in-betweens. Does anyone else feel the same?

So, it’s going to happen. Something. And on a global level. I am determined to keep that something at bay as long as I possibly can. I just wish that more and more people would see that our only two steps are to make the lifestyle changes necessary to become renewable energy independent (as individual persons & communities, not a national system, because we have seen how tragically our national systems breakdown) , thus lessening our pollutive contributions to the problem. The second step is to prepare to rebuild after the something. Yes, I mean what I say. Think Hurricane Katrina, but on a global scale and to the nth degree. You can see what I mean about preparing to rebuild.

Obviously, there are other steps to take, but those seem to me to be the most important ones. We have to kill Monsanto and other monopolizing entities or at least cripple them enough that their buying off and paying off powers don’t render us completely helpless. We need to convince people that ethanol fuel is only a kludge in the system and not really a solution. We have to stop sending our children to public school, so that they aren’t dumbed down and can grow up as free thinking individuals. We need to bring the community back together and find our tribes, so that we have resources for our children and elderly and for those who take care of our children and elderly. We need to stop hunting down and killing off our wise ones, our elder patriarchs and matriarchs, our sages and healers, our midwives and shamans. There is a lot to be done, but those two main steps alone could save us…sadly though, not all of us.

Any thoughts?

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